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Insecurity Isn't a Feeling, It's an Opinion You Can Change

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Insecurity Isn't a Feeling, It's an Opinion You Can Change

Jaemin Frazer · Life coach & founder, The Insecurity Project9 November 202544 min

Jaemin Frazer treats insecurity like an engineering problem: not a feeling to manage, but a solvable systems fault. One of Australia's leading coaches on eradicating — not accommodating — self-doubt.

Jaemin's definition alone is worth the listen: insecurity isn't fear of failure or rejection — it's the fear that your worst opinion of yourself might be confirmed. That reframe turns something foggy into something workable, because opinions can be examined, tested and changed.

Founder of The Insecurity Project, Jaemin brings an engineer's mindset to human change, helping entrepreneurs, leaders and creators show up unhindered by doubt and self-limiting beliefs. A precise, practical conversation about the story underneath the stories — the one you tell about yourself.

In this episode

  • Insecurity defined: fear your worst self-opinion is true
  • Why insecurity is a solvable problem, not a life sentence
  • The engineering mindset applied to self-doubt
  • How insecurity quietly drives over-work and hiding
  • Showing up unhindered — what it takes

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